DIY Estate Planning vs. Professional Help—What’s the Cost of Getting It Wrong?
When it comes to estate planning, many families wonder: “Can I just do this myself?” It’s a fair question, especially when money is tight or you’re trying to take control of your financial future.
But here’s the truth: DIY estate planning may save money up front, but getting it wrong could cost your family thousands of dollars, unnecessary stress, and even the loss of assets you worked hard to build.
Let’s break down the real cost of doing it yourself versus hiring professional help, and help you make a confident, informed decision for your loved ones.
What Is Estate Planning? Why Does It Matter?
Estate planning means creating legal documents that protect your family, your assets, and your wishes after you pass away or if you become unable to make decisions.
At a minimum, an estate plan includes:
- A will or trust
- A power of attorney
- Health care directives
- Beneficiary designations on accounts or policies
For underserved families and first-time homebuyers, estate planning ensures your home, savings, and belongings stay in the hands of your loved ones, not the state.
DIY Estate Planning: What It Offers—and What It Risks
The Pros of DIY Estate Planning
- Low cost: Online templates and kits range from free to $100.
- Convenience: You can do it on your own time.
- Control: You know exactly what’s in your documents.
The Cons of DIY Estate Planning
- No legal guidance: Templates can’t answer your questions.
- State laws vary: What’s legal in one state might not work in another.
- Mistakes = delays or denial: An improperly signed or outdated will can be thrown out in court.
- No planning for unique situations: If you have minor children, debt, or property in different states, you need more than a one-size-fits-all form.
“My father used a free will template online, but after he passed, the court said it wasn’t valid. We spent over a year in probate.” — B’resheet client story
Professional Estate Planning: What You Get
The Benefits of Working with a Pro
- Legal accuracy: They understand state-specific laws and probate rules.
- Customization: Get a plan that reflects your unique situation, like blended families or owning a small business.
- Peace of mind: Know your documents are correct and up to date.
- Long-term savings: Avoid probate fees, family conflict, and legal battles.
According to Investopedia, the average cost of hiring an estate planning attorney ranges from $300 to $2,000, depending on complexity. It may sound steep, but compare that to thousands in probate fees or months in court.

The Real Cost of Getting It Wrong
Risk | DIY Estate Plan | Professional Help |
Invalid Will | High | Low |
Probate Delays | Likely | Less Likely |
Family Conflict | Possible | Avoidable |
Total Cost | $0–$100 upfront, $$$ later | $300–$2,000 upfront, peace of mind later |
Think of it this way: DIY is cheaper now, but can be more expensive later. Professional help may cost more today, but it can save your family heartache and money in the future.
Empowering You to Take the Next Step
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Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is a DIY will legally binding?
It can be—but only if it meets your state’s laws for signatures, witnesses, and formatting. Even small mistakes can make it invalid.
Q: What happens if I die without a will?
The state decides who gets your assets. This process, called intestate succession, may leave out people you care about or create family tension.
Q: Can I update a DIY will?
Yes, but updates must also follow legal rules. Even crossing something out can make the document unclear or void.
Q: When should I hire an estate planning attorney?
If you have children, own a home, run a business, or have complicated family dynamics, it’s wise to seek legal help.
Q: Can I make my own will without a lawyer?
A: Yes, but it must follow your state’s legal rules. Mistakes can make it invalid.
Q: What’s the difference between a will and a trust?
A: A will goes through probate; a trust avoids probate and can manage your assets while you’re still alive.
Q: Do I need a will if I don’t have much money?
A: Yes. A will protects your wishes, no matter your income. It’s not just about money—it’s about peace of mind.
