Managing an Estate: A Checklist for Executors
Your step-by-step guide to settling a loved one’s affairs with clarity and compassion.
When someone passes away, managing their estate can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re the one responsible. If you’ve been named the executor, you may not know where to begin. This guide offers a clear estate management checklist to help you carry out your duties confidently, protect your loved one’s legacy, and bring peace of mind to those left behind.
At B’resheet, we understand that estate planning isn’t just about money—it’s about honoring lives and building lasting stability for families like yours.
What Is an Executor and What Do They Do?
An executor is the person legally appointed to manage someone’s estate after they die. That means:
- Following the will (if there is one)
- Settling debts
- Paying taxes
- Distributing property and assets to beneficiaries
Executors play a key role in ensuring the deceased’s wishes are fulfilled and that the family is supported during a hard time.
Executor Checklist: Step-by-Step
1. Get the Legal Authority
Before doing anything, you’ll need to:
- Locate the will (if it exists)
- File it with the probate court
- Get Letters Testamentary (legal permission to act as executor)
If there’s no will, you may be appointed as administrator instead.
2. Secure the Estate
Protect all assets by:
- Locking up the home
- Taking inventory of valuables
- Notifying financial institutions
- Redirecting mail
This helps prevent theft, damage, or confusion.
3. Notify Important Parties
Let the following people and institutions know:
- Family members and heirs
- Banks and credit unions
- Social Security Administration
- Insurance companies
- Credit bureaus
Pro tip: Keep a contact log to track conversations.
4. Inventory Assets and Debts
Create a list of everything the person owned and owed:
- Real estate, vehicles, jewelry, and furniture
- Bank accounts, retirement funds, and life insurance
- Credit cards, loans, and taxes
Use this to help with probate and taxes.
5. Pay Debts and Taxes
You’re responsible for:
- Settling final bills and funeral expenses
- Filing the deceased’s last tax return
- Paying any estate taxes (if required)
💡 Visit IRS.gov for up-to-date filing information.
6. Distribute Inheritance
Once all debts and taxes are handled:
- Follow the will to give out property and funds
- If no will, follow your state’s laws (called intestate succession)
Be transparent. Keep records to avoid family misunderstandings.
7. Close the Estate
After all duties are done:
- Submit a final accounting to the court
- Get approval to close the estate
Save documents in a secure place for future reference

Need Help Managing an Estate?
Being an executor is a big responsibility, but you don’t have to do it alone. B’resheet offers compassionate guidance for families just like yours. Whether you’re preparing now or managing a loved one’s legacy, we’re here to help.
📩 Contact us for a free consultation
📥 Download: Estate Executor Checklist
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does it take to settle an estate?
Most estates take 6–12 months, but complex estates can take longer, especially if there’s no will or legal disputes
Can I be held personally responsible for debts?
Not usually. As executor, you pay debts from the estate—not your own money—unless you mishandle funds.
Do I need a lawyer to be an executor?
Not always. For simple estates, you can do it yourself with help from the court. For complex cases, a probate attorney may help.
What happens if someone dies without a will?
The court will appoint an administrator, and state laws decide who inherits property.
Can an executor live in another state?
Yes, but they may face extra steps, like appointing a local representative or posting a bond.
Can I say no to being an executor?
Absolutely. If you’re not able or willing, you can decline, and the court will choose someone else.
What are Letters Testamentary?
They’re documents from the probate court that give you the legal right to manage the estate.
